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This is the fourth book that I read this year. My curiosity heightened when my book bug friends started talking about the book they call “agib-agib”, a reversed word for “biga-biga” which in vernacular means flirt or flirting. My best friend Joann, ask me to recommend a book that she can read. We were in National Bookstore trying to choose a good book for her. That was the time when 50 Shades trilogy has been the talk of the town, whispers in the alley and gossip in the streets. News spread of how controversial this book is. I recommended fifty shades even if I haven’t read the book yet. Some people say it’s nice, some people say it’s too much. Eventually, after I’ve read the book, I can finally say my share of comments with regard to this one.

So this is what Fifty Shades of Grey is all about. It is a story of Christian Grey who is a misogynist, handsome, filthy rich bachelor that has a dirty little secret due to a dark past that he could not leave behind as it haunts and torment him during his sleep at night. He engaged in weird sexcapade which the author called “kinky fuckery”.  The heroine, Anastasia Steel, is an English literature major graduating student. She did not had any romantic relationship with anyone, so basically she is a blue eyed-brown haired virgin.

The story introduced BDSM which stands for Bondage, Dominance, Sadism, and Masochism. This is the first book that I read that has this concept and it honestly made me cringe. If you are so obsessed with Harry Potter, Twilight Saga, Hunger Games Trilogy and Game of Thrones, you will absolutely find this book very unnerving. Throughout the book, all I felt for the heroine Ana Steel was pity. It makes me loath Christian Grey for being such and abusive piece of shit. He is asking Ana to sign a contract or an agreement that she will obey of becoming a submissive and will adhere to everything that he wants. He is a total controller and very condescending and Ana tolerated such behavior  for what?

I could honestly say that I was clued reading this book. The author was able to get to the reader with her writing, but if you are going to ask professional editors and writer, they find this book to be poorly written. I cannot say what they mean when they say it was not written well, since readers (like me) spent all our time just to finish this book. In a professional way, maybe E.L. James missed important part of the book, or the story has not been properly plotted. If you noticed, there has been words and phrases that was repeated too many times, such as “oh my, holy cow, holy crap, holy moses, holy shit and holy fuck”. And the other equally overused phrase “Inner Goddess”.

It is a nice story, but if you will consider this one, you might think that this kind of set up in a relationship is fine. That being a submissive is totally okay and this fucked-up relationship will turn out to be a fairy tale. This is fiction, but this could also affect readers. This is not an ideal relationship to start with. I find this very self depreciating for every woman who would conform to this kind of relationship. Book 1 ended tragically, but there is still Book 2 that can avenge Book 1.

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Dress: Belle Jean Clothing

Shoes: Parisian

Accessories: Beads and Pearls

I love the colors Black and white. They are the classic colors. If you will wear them next year and years to come, they will not run out of style because they are the color that stays all throughout the decade. I remember when I was in college, I liked the color pink. Every item, it could either be clothes, bags, shoes, accessories, and even wall paper, I always want it to be pink. That was also the time when pink was very popular for girls. After I graduated college, I find pink very feminine, so I changed my color to green. It was hard finding green for clothes; they don’t have much in store for this color, so eventually I settled for Black and White. That was also the time when I realized that I am no longer a girl, I am now a woman! They say, as you get older, you would then like to wear black, white, brown, gray and all light colors.

I love this dress, not just the color but also the cloth. It is made of cotton. Since it is summer, seeing white for a dress is a breath of fresh air. I could wear this dress all day under the sun. The color is eye friendly and the cloth is very comfortable. With a white dress, you can pair it with absolutely anything, because white serves as an equalizer of all colors. You can even wear yellow shoes or orange cardigan with it. You can even accessorize with all different colors, and it would not look like you are overdoing your style. Just a tip, if you are going to buy a white dress, make sure that you accessorize or pair it with another color, so that you will not look like you are going to attend a funeral or a wedding.

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Top and Skirt: Belle Jean Clothing

Shoes: Mario D’boro

Accessories: Beads and Pearls

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If you get accustomed to wearing office wears, you get to know how to mix and match outfits that will compliment the primary color that you chose. I am very particular with colors. I cannot wear more than 3 colors in one outfit. You will only see me in 2, and 3 is the most. I don’t play with different loud and neon colors, because I am a believer of minimalism. That means chose 2 colors and rock with that color with accessories and confidence. Less is more they say, and that is absolutely true, because the less that they see in you brings out elegance and sophistication. Overdoing your outfit will only make you look baggy. Well, I knew a lot of people who can play neon colors with style and confidence, and a lot who can’t. There are tricks in putting colors together and that would depend on the style and trick on how to make it work.

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